Parents Dating

If you are new to the dating world or you have been dating, here are some tips on how you can enjoy single mom dating:

• Take the pressure off yourself (and your date) - Go out with the intention of having fun and enjoying the company of someone else rather than the pressure of having to find a life-long partner.
• Find a Reliable Babysitter or Caregiver – Knowing that your children are in good hands, can make all the difference in the world when it comes to enjoying yourself.  I know that I personally find it difficult to enjoy myself if my thoughts are somewhere else, which makes it difficult for me to focus fully on the person I am with.  Make sure you have a cell phone with you so that the person caring for your children can contact you in the case of an emergency.
• Do not feel guilty - You may be having guilt that you should be at home with your children that night.  Remember that it is good self-care to take care of yourself too.  A happy mom is a good mom.
• Date a Single Father – There’s something to be said about dating someone else who shares similar interests and knows what you are going through.
• Do not worry about what others think -  Depending on the circumstances of being a single mom dating, you may be concerned about what others will think.  You have to get over this.  You are living your life for them.  You have to do what is right for your life.
• Do not involve your children in your dating life – Depending on the age of your children, they may show disapproval or be upset as they may still secretly hope that you will get back together with their father.
• Talk with your children about their feelings – Allow your children to speak to you about how they feel, as understanding your children’s fears and concerns, can help you in making better choices when dating.

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